TRUE SUCCESS

True success is measured by the amount of joy and happiness you've brought and established in the lives of others. When you think about the life of king Solomon and all his achievements; when you have a keen look at the world and the whole universe, you would have a rethink on materialism. Having, without giving, is the worse harm a man could do to himself. Because there's no better medicine nor merriment to the mind and body, than a simple contribution in making the needy happy. The joy, you instigate in the life of that old man/woman; the hope, you give that young boy/girl; The smile, you put on the face of that little child; the little push and assurance you create in the life of that man/woman; the motivation and support, you give the struggling youth; the restoration, brought to that family and community; your simple gift to humanity and generations to come. These amazing things, define true success!
                                   -Nelsy Akomor (Fléxy) 

LOVE, SACRIFICE AND THE PRICE

"Love is a willing sacrifice" instigated by attraction, interest, desire, passion, zeal and free will. In any form or way you apply love; like in marriage, friendship, a romantic relationship, family, job, carrier, life et al; there's always a price you pay. "THE PRICE FOR LOVE IS MOST VALUABLE AND INEVITABLE"
                                                         -Nelsy Akomor (Fléxy)

TARDINESS

Hesitation is one big problem in the world today. It is a chronic problem among many people all over the world. It is considered more than just a display of bad manners. In fact, it's the primary and most frequently recurring discipline problem. But the fundamental question is, is this problem necessarily a lack of time or a mismanagement of time? Well, I've come to realize that, in our modern world, it's not that time is limited, but that we have many disruptions and distractions. Being chronically late can cause a bad impression on others and shows a lack of consideration for others. Chronic lateness can also tarnish your reputation among friends and peers. Hey, it isn't good for people to refer to you as one, who is a punctual late comer. Tardiness is rude and distracting to others; it doesn't display self discipline. If I may ask, doesn't it irritate you, when you have to wait for someone or others? Then don’t keep others waiting!
                                                                   

DESTINY

Who told you destiny cannot be changed nor altered? You are the only one who has the power to change your destiny. God has given you the power to decide, "free will". Remember Adam, the story; Moses, great and loved by God, but did not enter the promise land; Samson, the most powerful, but he was cut down by a strange woman he loved honestly, a decision he personally made; Job overcame the devil, he could have change the story. No one was created to fail. Success and failure are born from decisions and actions. As you strive towards achieving your goals and obtaining fulfillment, be diligent in your dealings. And may the Almighty God guide you through your path on your journey to your destination. 
                                                                                                 -Nelsy Akomor (Fléxy)

FRIENDSHIP

Friendship is a relationship between friends. It is the feeling and behavior that exists among friends. Friendship is God's most special gift. Yes! Friends are very rare jewel indeed! They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear; they correct you politely when you are wrong; they share a word of praise; and their hearts are readily open to you. Respect, value and appreciate each other or one another as friends. Though, it feels good to know you are superior in a relationship. But true friendship is built on love, loyalty, equity, equality, trust, understanding, tolerance, submission, support, acceptance and the ability to strengthen one another in unique ways. A true friend would say: "I'll be there for you, whenever you need me!"
                                                                                  -Nelsy Akomor (Fléxy) 

REGAIN THAT TRUST

Hey! When it seems your man/woman does not trust you anymore, you will not gain back his/her trust by dictating, acting like it's all about you; by barking nor fighting. You will only leave him/her with too many questions in his/her head. Even if he/she is right or wrong, you know what I mean! You gave him/her reasons of doubts in the first place. You could regain his/her love and trust by reassuring him/her and making him/her know how much he's/she's worth and means to you, with your sincere words and actions. Let him/her know the alluring and outstanding qualities he/she has that endears him/her to you and why you cannot be interested in another man/woman, but just him/her. He/she wants to feel secure! He/she wants to know he/she has all you need in a man/woman. That he/she is that special and unique man/woman! Do it now or it becomes too late. That sweet love, could fade away slowly like a song; It could easily die like a plant not nourished. The blossom friendship could become hatred. You know what is right! YOUR CALL!
                                                              -Nelsy Akomor "Fléxy"

ONE SIMPLE SMILE!

She smiled at a sorrowful stranger. The smile seemed to make him feel better. He remembered past kindnesses of a friend and wrote him a thank you letter. The friend was so pleased with the thank you that he left a large tip after lunch. The waitress, surprised by the size of tip, bet the whole thing on a hunch. The next day, she picked up her winnings and gave part of it to a man on the street. The man was grateful; he ate for the two days he had nothing to eat. After he finished his dinner, he left for his small dingy room. He didn't know at that moment that he might be facing his doom. On the way he picked up a shivering puppy and took him home to get warm. The puppy was grateful to be out of the storm. That night the house caught on fire. The puppy barked that alarm. He barked till he woke the whole household and saved everybody from harm. One of the boys that he rescued grew up to be president. All these because of a simple smile that didn't cost a cent.
                                                                          -Unknown

RESPECT FOR OTHERS

Do not treat others like animals nor  slaves, because you are privileged. No man is an island! The man/woman you see; the man/woman you work with, or who works for you is another person's loved one. What you have or who you are doesn't matter; and it does not justify nor give you the right to belittle others. life is like breath, and you can lose it any time. Live well; and live well with others; No one, can live nor stand alone. Always consider others as well as you do yourself in your dealings. Treat others with respect!
                                                                      -Nelsy Akomor (Fléxy)